Breastfeeding

Last week we went to Baby-friendly hospital to supervise the practices and promotion of breastfeeding in hospital. Of course, we did see many mothers BF their new born babies. But what we get, or personally for me, I just gained technical knowledge on BF. I know mothers were BF but it did not impose what strong good impression for me to motivate my mind to accept and practice BF by myself in the future.

It sad to be said or it is well known that Chinese in this country is the least ethnic that like to BF their children. Many had this kind of experiences; I guest, just as in my family. None of my siblings including me get breast milk from my mum. It was the leader of the family, my father that refused to let us BF by my mum. Also, I didn’t see family support for BF because my grandmother also didn’t ask my mum BF her grandchild. So, I don’t have the strong feeling that “BF IS A MUST” just as what had written in Al-Quran. 

However, things changed since yesterday. We went to Clinic Jinjang to do supervision task again. I witnessed one Chinese young mother BF her 2nd baby. Wow! So rare to see Chinese BF without force by staff nurse and on demand to her baby! I admired the mother, same race as me, young and productive. (=p) She looked motherly and easy when she BF. Looked charm and unique. My friend interviewed her; she said she faced no difficulties to BF both of her children. Oh? I wondering.. I heard from my mum, BF is painful and not easy. How come that mother can handle it so successfully? But, I believed in her, I can read through her face, no pain but enjoying giving her milk to her baby. I love that scene! Which totally bring me confident and hope that BF is not so hard to practice. 

I had to admit, when Sister Fadilah spoke to me, “Chinese is the most stubborn mother who hard to pick up BF practice even after few hard approaches”, my heart felt one kind. Ya.. even myself as nutrition student and bugging with all the information on BF in my mind, still, I think I hard to make a move. 

It’s not easy to just say BF. Many things will come to mind after hearing “BF” this word.

I know what you think of it. Me too.. I know why hard for Chinese to make a move, to say surely and confidently that they will BF in the future. I know what you care, because so do I. 

However, friends! 
When you or your wife, your sisters, your cousins, your friends is planning for a pregnancy, tell them and let them know that BF is not horrible, yet, it can be beautiful and meaningful memories for both parents and their baby.

Remember, breast milk is the best food for infant!

And for me, I will make up mind to convince myself and future mothers to practice BF. Really, I think I can do it. I really think so… 

上门吃饭，不减肥

当时我说，实习两个月我要瘦下来！我要瘦至少两公斤，我要节制饮食，我要多运动，我要甩掉2公斤的赘肉，我要让自己看起来美一点！
但是，真可惜… 我的减肥计划没有成功

！
到现在为止，我的体重还比baseline 的来的重了一些。真可恶… 
为什么呢？

因为一星期里有好几天会到贤的家去吃饭。 每一次我的盘都塞得满满的饭，还有满桌子的佳肴。吃饱后，还有水果伺候。再来，健康养生的饮料也会登场，灌满我的肠子。这还不止，临回家前， 还会给我带回一些糕点、面包、或零嘴等，实在是食物泛滥促成我的体重难下降！

其实很不好意思的，要人家的妈妈大费周章张罗食物给我， 还要又吃又拎，怪pai she 的。
还不打紧，准备功夫到烹饪到上菜再到善后，他们都不让我插手。只有得吃没得活动活动，所以就越吃越肥咯！哈哈
后来，我上门吃饭的次数与日俱增，我觉得太不好意思酱子让人家招待我。所以，我开始自动自发地去洗碗，当成是回馈他们的热情款待。一开始，他们还是不肯让我洗， 一直囔着不用我洗、不让我洗。后来的后来，他们也不吵了，安静地让我帮他们洗完！
哈哈… 现在我的工作是饭后洗碗咯！

话说回来，吃吃吃，吃得我胖胖啦！
嗨哟… 我要减肥啊！就快要 Faculty Night 了，我要 美美出场的… 拜托啦，我要瘦下来！

因为就连我妈妈都说，我的屁股变大了咧！ 好伤心… 
呜呜呜，我才不要屁股大大，我要都是要胸部大大啦！=p

感触

感触… 即将离开这个办公室。
刚刚的午休，友族朋友们尽心尽力地为大家举办了一场欢送会。即使也不算是欢送会， 因为欢送我们的人是我们自己。我们出钱出力还请埋工作人员全部来大吃大喝。不止，我们还有准备礼物给他们当作是纪念。

  

一开始时不高兴这样的欢送会。因为要出钱又出力。
但刚才那一餐，还不错。真是辛苦了举办人。

刚刚谈了一会儿，举办人向我们吐苦水。是的，办公室的人是关系太复杂了。东西做得好，别人得名；东西弄丢了，我们赔钱。人前人后，不简单。有些人，明着来是不好人，这样大家还容易防着；有些人暗地里坏，总会趁人不注意“陷”你一下。暗箭难防啊… 

公司里的确有几个人我不喜欢。假惺惺的，伺机陷害我。
我的个性坦率，我不喜欢别人和我玩假惺惺。我的人很简单的，不喜欢的你就说，别在我后面打小报告。我的样子还不够凶不够严肃吗？你们不晓得得罪我的话，会遭我回击吗？
嘿嘿，别惹我。我不是好惹的。

我更讨厌重心机的人。也讨厌自私自利的人，更不会喜欢狐假虎威的人。
好心点，将来的我分分钟就高职，骑驽你们！
真是有眼不识泰山… 反省啦！裹首人

快乐的一天

今天的心情不错，到公司后感觉很开朗，嘻嘻哈哈地胡闹一番。趁还没开始工作前，上网blog 一blog，免得待会儿心情受损没闲写blog。

昨天不好，昨天一肚子气。

公司里的大白鲨，含笑威胁我们时；叫我们赔钱买刀；裹首族还提议设宴感谢公司员工（超没有point 的）；临放工时叫穿裤子的人留下加工… 总总公司里不公平的待遇，让我气愤却又无可奈何。

呼… 长叹一口气，为倒数的六天加油、微笑！

就快结束了，我没有眷恋。
坏的经历快快忘记，好的开始即将到来。
希望我的心情可以保持良好，一直到结束今天的工作！


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最近忙，看朋友们不断地update blog 就蠢蠢欲动却有心无力。

这近一个礼拜来，忙。

回去UPM 两趟，参加表姐的婚礼后又去公司dinner，接下来又3天attach 在Putrajaya 医院看喂奶… 接下来的周末不想跟贤会Batu，想要休息充电一下，顺便整理一下功课文件等。

就快要开学了，贤说太快了，不舍得…. 活该他！！ =p

我是黑鳞鲛人

对于鲛人这名词，我涌现了奇妙的幻想。
幻想自己就是鲛人，出众的外表，奇异的功能，能够在水里畅游也能在路上奔驰。

太迷人的外表，足以迷死所有的男人女人。
基因遗传是强势的，我的后代都会承继我的美、我的善…

黑鳞鲛人，
这名词让我太向往了
若是世上真的有这生物的存在，我好愿意和他们交朋友，因为他们可以教会我游泳！=p

突然间，我仿佛回到了小时候爱幻想的时候，
想着童话里的美人鱼化成泡沫成全爱人，
感觉鲛人真的是重情重义，善良又充满爱心，所以他们才长的如此的美…

太美了…

蓝色的头发、碧色的眼珠、出色的五官、细致的皮肤、玲珑有致的身材….
我好希望自己变成一条鱼哦！又同时可以维持人类的智慧智商情感情绪，
啊… 太完美了！

别理我，
我只是太专注于《镜》系列的小说
告诉你，
好棒的文字，好棒的想象空间，
强势推荐！

真的是… BEH TAHAN LIAO！

What the… damn damn hot u know! Where got ppl so kolian like us, stay in such office sweating a lot with clothes almost wet liao？！
Too terrible lar… I beh tahan liao lo!

What the….

太过分了啦… 
呼呼… 

我好热咧，小电脑也快中暑了！救命啊…
要怎么办呢？

心境自然凉，我也尝试了，没凑效啊。

呼… 热得真要命！！ 

噪音、没空调、闷靠的OFFICE

不知怎的，OFFICE 常常没空调。今天也一样。

没空调也算了，楼下竟然还传来刺耳的电砖声、铁锤声… 叮叮咚咚、咚咚锵锵，吵得半命！！

什么政府机构来的？工作环境如此的恶劣，要我如何为你效命？基本需求都如此不堪，如何发展国家？

屁股它… 热到我好心情都被吹毁了！

我的MONDAY 不是BLUE，而是GREY 的了。

救命啊…
快点开空调，要不然也得开一盏风扇给我们啊！屁股它…